pros and cons of being single at 27
Well I had no plans to do any post these days but it seems difficult when you are addicted to blogging and especially when you have like 6/7 Unpublished and Incomplete Drafts stored in your Dashboard..it becomes a sin then not to blog them..right?
(so em publishing an already written post with a minor changes..got to publish it a week before but then something came up..I guess that Khar Episode so Postponed it.)
So here I am with another Buk Buk Post..yeh its all buk buk today...In case If you were looking for Truth and Sanity when you clicked on my recent post.DON'T READ IT then..it will disappoint you badly and you might want to strangle me which is even more insane because em fasting right now and your killing me this way will send me straight to Heavens and that , I presume, you will not want for my punishment..right?;p
SO yeh peoples there is nothing sane on my page today..Maybe some other day but that day is not today..not right now..okay? (andthatdoesnotmeanyouskipthispostyoudothisandyouaredead!)..all settled I guess...
So today's Bukwas post is focusing the World issue number 27 (entirely over-rated of-course)...its one of my non-sense issues that cover my status as single at 27!!!
Yeh you got me right...being the most experienced person for speaking over this topic..I decided to take the lead..after all em 27 and still single! *series of sighs here*
I did mentioned that before..right?If not ..you have heard it again anyways,,so yeh em 27 and single yet..and em going to cover the pros and cons of being single at 27 for those :
1-Those, who are not 27 yet but still single.
2-Those, who are planning to stay single when they will turn 27 .
3-Those, who are not single and not 27 but still want to know how does it feel to be single at 27.
4-Those, who are happily married with Adorable kids and wonderful partners and just reading this because they read whatever non-sense I write here.*Love you guys so much..hugs*
So I guess that pretty much covers The Targeted public for this read...Lets talk about it now..well
Where being single has its advantages, it has few darker sides too/...so do you want me to talk about the bright side first or it should be the darker side first? want me to flip a coin? oh com'n there is no need.....let me think........OK so its the bright side first...hmmmmmmmm and this hmmmm does not mean I don't have much of a brighter sides to present here..There are many..,just wait them to get here in a proper shape na..be patient..you are on Mishi's page after all..
Just relax and let it go with the flow..not that Go WITH THE FLOW flow ..its the other flow..the flow of Lines na...So there are many advantages of being single and..
1-Biggest of them all is THE LATE..THE BETTER!! as quoted by one of my most reasonable friend..see I dint dare to mention this quote is mine...Now I got it why some people, while discussing, bring ,out of no where, and I mean it! OUT OF NO WHERE bring those references from Shakespeare's and Confucius and whom not..this is something that people do when they want other to believe what they are saying..(ohmygodidontbelievididthesame)...
Kahir so yeh it gives you the extra time to think and ponder over the side-effects of getting married..you can keep looking around you..keep observing the others experiences and no wonder if your research pays you even at the last moment when you suddenly realise the misery of all those people and you can run away from the mundib even at the very last minute..(hmm yeh I guess to run away from mundib is way easy then run away from 15/20 people encirciling you while the Nikah Ceremony is on)..
You can keep enjoying the life in the mean while..just the way as em doing..see its 1am already and em still having fun here..it were not this way if I had a demanding mean hubby and bunch of Crying for attention cubs waiting for me in the bed-room..aint it?
*Apology offered in advance to all my married Friends here..pleasedontbeatmeup*
2-The second advantage of being single is that you can act young for as long as you want...in other words you can play Munni like all the time..(Not that Munni budnam howi wali munni..Munni as in the meaning munni...means chunni..kaki..munni!got it now?)
so no matter how the crowd around you try their level best to make you feel bad about yourself ..you can always hit them back by playing and acting young all the time...and this is your Right!! All the fashion in the entire world is made for you..after all you are the one who is yet to be picked! and you are the one with Broader range of Opportunities not them!! (your married friends-cum-enemies who keep on telling you that this is the right time for you! the inner secret My Friends is that they cant digest the fact that you still look way too young and fresh then they look..specially when both of you are in the same age-club!)
So you can fly in the air...try all the odd fashions...everything is for you from those dark-shades to trendy clothes..you are young and you can feel young..Life is good with all the freedom...
3-You are In charge of your own life, your own time and your own money..Life is good when you are single and you are earning..What would you want more? you don't need to tolerate the annoying habits of some one sharing your bed-room...the only disgusting habits that you have to put up with are your own!! No stinky Socks and no fuss about "your parents don't respect me the way they Should"..its all peace out there...
4-No emotional roller coaster rides for you!! yeh I have seen all my married friends complaining and fussing about how their hubbies don't love them the way they used to when they were not married and how they have become Indifferent toward them and how they hate being with them and how they want to break their heads (hehe yeh one of my friend had a firm believe on Violence;p)......well you being single at peace....No emotional Nora-Kushti for you...you have all the time in the world to stabilize your emotions and work on your personality...no annoying question for you to ponder over such as "does he not love me the same way ?! or " does he love me at all?!!" ...nah you have all the time in the world to fix your own fears and insecurities and complexes,,and then you find some extra time to listen to your married Friend's s dhukhi stories and can offer them your condolence and wise advice too...World finds you all the more useful this way;p
5-Then the biggest point of it all is you can have all the time in the world and focus on your career if you have any..and can have some if you dint have a career before....aint it great? you can work hard..reach your goals and can get settled down instead of waiting to get married while sitting at home ..doing absolutely nothing EXCEPT watching Star Plus Soaps ! I know they are of great importance too as they teach you and get you ready for the Domestic Politics but com'n there is a lot to explore in the world then "learning the tricks to catch your sasso maa red-handed while lying "...and this part of the world is all yours...you can have a career which is very important to have in the given conditions of World economy..
So guys these were the few plus points of being single...Now the dark points...
1-The top on the list is that you suddenly find out that you are "out of the right matches!" ..yeh its when you see a Cool Dude and you instantly want to know 'How old is he?!" ..yeh because....
"All the good-looking men by then are Taken...About to be taken..Married to some one else or YOUNGER to you!!!!" *another series of sighs*.....
So whenever you look at a handsome guy ..You start making your guesses and Prayers for him to be at-least around your age-group..who wants a young guy for a partner?! em some body who would take 4 years older then 1 year younger!! Old is gold and mature too!;p The world seems to be a smaller place to you other then the Global Village thingy....You feel bad and sad for missing all the good guys who are now married to Either your Friend or neighbor or cousin or WORST your Dushman number one at University Level....(After all it would have been a mean pleasure to steal a guy from that b---- who left no stones unturned making you feel bad back then)
2-The whole world seems to conspire against you! wherever you go..whom ever you meet..or talk on phone..."when are you getting married then" is the first question that your hear...and they seem to be never stopping with their obsession with this question...and top on the list are "some Aunties" who have nothing better to do in their own little pathetic lives then investigating your little one...you feel like shooting them right in their heads when they give you that "POOR SOUL" Look...and want to shout on their faces..*"em not dying to get married!!!" ...so let me be! and take care of your Flirty Husbands and stupid kids you b----*.....
3-A time comes when you feel like settling down and you get tired of getting ready for no one in particular...You feel lonely to see your Friends busy with their Families...Nothing else matters then! and then you go to shop one day and get back home buying a Kitten....
yes! Kitten is the ultimate Alternative for your bad feelings and you start investing all your attention on bringing up the cute kitten...it also gives you a chance to talk about some thing in return when Your friends want you to hear all the cute little details of "When my little one took the first step!" and "When he first called me mumy"!...so you don't need to be quiet there..you patiently wait them to stop with the details and then start your own version of " hey you know my kitten last night took its first jump from the table,,and she was totally adorable!!"...and "she can eat Spiders now..OMG she is growing up!"...
Now the bad point about it!? Bringing up Kitten in the same lines of bringing up human baby costs you a lot! and this is what puts it at this part of the post..The Financials !!
Khair..so peoples this was all by my side now..its not that the points are ended..its just I don't want to drag this read to the point that you get bored ..and as par Rules,.I never end my reads just like that...there always is a moral lesson hidden in the last lines and enrich them only who take the pains to read the whole post...so Congrats! you are the Lucky ones;p
Well there is nothing bad about being single at 27..Life is good ..it gives you a chance to enjoy it fully before you get stuck in Responsibilites..(this is actually the advice that almost all my married Friends hand me in..every time I talk to them) and for my Advice...its here..
Yeh so whatever status are you having..just be happy with it..Life doesn't end here..it surely has many many other pleasant things to offer you at the end of the day...All you have to do is be patient and be Open..and keep enjoying life at your Parent's place before some body comes in your life to ask you to wash his Dirty and Stinky Socks !! hehe take cares and miltay hein break kay baad!;-)
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