Expectations To Imperfections and Happniness
Mr.Perfect/Miss.Perfect/Mr.Right,The One.. all represent the same idea.Somebody who has everything that we always desired for,The Perfect Looks, The Perfect Social Status, The Perfect Personality and the List goes on. Admit it or not But we all had Ideals when we were young,and some of us still have those vague images in their mind that they secretly wish to actually find one day.These Ideals are our Criteria to judge people in our Life,To see if they fit right in those shapes that are being imprinted in our minds,hearts and souls since Long.
It amazes me to see how people just don't realize this,They have this long list of "Haves/HAVE Nowt's" about their Ideal/Desired Partners without knowing they don't have one single things out of that List in themselves.How Ironic yet Common to witness around us.
Love is the only thing that can make things work between a couple.Choosing someone as your Life Partner is different in every way.That person does not has to be an Extra-Ordinary Person,All he/she ought to have is the spark that could tell that you will be OK with compromising over his/her short-comings.
Relationships are all about Patience/Sacrifices and your being Open towards that bond.Isn't it? Then Why do we set such hypothetical standards for others to meet when we are nothing but just one common-faced, ordinary person out there? Why make Life so complicated when we can take it easy! May be it has got to do something with our being some extra mature which makes us some extra choosy and Picky.I have seen people who fear the Unknown and Unseen in their Life like anything,They are people with strained sense of perfection in their Life,They just cant take anything that they did not plan for.They calculate,They count,They Plan,They execute and yet they fail to have what they wanted to have.All they choose to forget is the presence of Destiny in our Lives.
We cant plan every single thing in our Life,Can We! Destiny takes its Lead in strange ways,it hits us in the most surprising ways of all,strikes so suddenly that we cant even see what hit us! Yet People struggle to plan their Lives according to their little silly rules and at the end of the day these are the same people who are the most unhappy ones around us.What they cant digest is the Biggest Fact of this Universe,That you cant take Lead every time,There is something in this universe which is more powerful then your little will power.Plans Fail miserably,Calculations prove wrong in the most clumsy way ever and something knocks us off the road and we find ourselves in the middle of strange set of circumstances.
They say its not always wise to plan your life,All you can do is make your wish-list or have a desire in your heart and then try to work on it,But there is no way you should be deadly obsessed about it.There always is a fair chance of turning things in the right opposite direction of what we planned.SO sometimes its just wise to Let Things Go With the Flow.Or just be prepared to see our plans fail right on our Face.Happiness is not the name of Pursuit anyways.Its about being open what you get in your Life.How can we stay happy if we keep on looking back,keep on missing what once was in our Life and keep on ignoring what we have now!
And yes For all those Perfectionists out there,Please be Polite and behave when you meet someone not matching your criteria.Average People have Cute little hearts too..Right?!