So the best part of having mood swings is when you finally get over the urge of giving up and when you find yourself fighting back,something that is a must to move on! But I still believe that loosing heart or feeling like giving up is not something to be ashamed of, this in only human..What I wrote in my previous piece was based on the same thought, it, by no means, was intended to spread negative vibes, not at all. All I wanted to share with you guys here was this natural instinct of getting angry over what you can't control about your life, we are only human after all, Like I said earlier, what should be seen or focused is not the point when you get tired of everything, but its the point when you start having your energies back, when you realize that this is just part of life, and that "Bad Phases" pass too, just like the Good Phases,(yeah yeah..I am back to my Normal Side!;p) nothing here is for always but your inner peace,or if you have something to hold on to..something beautiful and sacred..(read LOVE here for instance) If you are happy and content with your life, nothing matters.No problem, no issue can be lethal enough unless and until you don't want to fight back or you have made up your mind to give up no matter what!
What I can't understand is why it becomes so difficult for us to admit that we can be weak too.Why its hard to digest that a normal person can actually get tired of living at some point.People just cannot stop lecturing you about How Should You Live You Life, irrespective of the fact that they cannot and they don't want to PUT THEIR SELF IN YOUR SHOES..trust me no one can do that, Even you can't do that for anyone in this entire world.So When you don't actually want to know that what does it feel to be that one PARTICULAR PERSON or leading their life, facing their issues, then WHAT gives you the right to tell them that THEY CANT LOSE HOPE?!
What my point here is just be kind with people when you can see that they are losing it, just don't be hard on them for not pretending that they are brave! do not blame them for being human, for being vulnerable, we all are weak, we all are this unguarded.People whizz through the hard phases anyways, what they wont forget is how they were treated then.So if you have somebody around you that you feel or sense that , is going through something
hard, just don't be hard on them, stay there with them until they get their courage back, make them feel important, valued, and loved.Just don't be brutal with them with your so called "I can Judge You for I am braver then you" sh*t.
Khair, I did not mean to offend anyone while writing that piece, I received bunch of emails too, complaining about some of the context in that post. Well
I did not mean to write something with a negative message. What you guys need to remember is that this is my personal space and I have every right to write about what I feel like sharing with my readers.,I cannot skip something just because it will make me look weak in front of my readers or friends .All I want to be honest with you guys, This page here is my personal journal and I want to be honest and straight-forward while recording the details here.Hope you guys will understand that.
Plus Guys, wish me Luck and Do pray for me as I have some exam to take care of in the next couple of days.